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- My boyfriend and I have been living
together for six years and we have a great sex life. We try new things and
are very open. My question is, why does he still look at porn? Is it me? I
am pretty attractive, not fat or anything.....or is this just a guy thing?
- Kiri, Age 27
It's a guy thing. Looking at porn is nothing to worry about. Learn to use
the force, Luke. Play porn when you're horny and he's not. Pretty soon
he'll be horny too.
- The Man
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- Do men like larger or smaller vagina
lips? I'm 16 and was wondering, because mine are pretty large. Thanks.
- Emily, Age 16
I wouldn't care if they hung down to your knees (although you might look a
little funny in a skirt). Asking if men like big or small vagina lips is a
little like asking if we like the paint jobs on the undercarriage of our
cars. We're just happy if we have a car. And I'm just happy if I have a
pair of vagina lips to play with once in a while. Know what I mean?
- The Man
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- I been married to my wife for 27 years
and I'm starting to wonder what a other women would be like. Its not a big
big thing, but chatting and some times flirting in the chat rooms makes me
think of it more. Is this normal?
- Emil, Age 47
Of course it's normal. Men who don't cheat on their wives don't cheat for
one of three reasons:
1) They love their beautiful wives so much no other woman matters.
2) They have enough will power or devotion or respect to honor wedding
vows.
3) They're scared shitless of the bitch.
In the end, you and I and every other guy in the modern world are
bombarded by sex. Sexy ads on TV, the radio, magazines, billboards and now
we can even flirt in chatrooms. It's no wonder we cheat. How many times
can you waive a carrot in front of a person before they take a bite? You
need to decide what's best for you, but wondering is certainly normal
under the circumstances.
- The Man
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- I'm extremely horny. I can't help but
thinking nasty thoughts all day. Are there ways other than masturbation to
satisfy myself? I don't want to be like one of those sluts who loses their
virginity at like 12 or 13. Please help!!!
- Laura, Age 12
What's wrong with masturbation? I know girls who do it and I know girls
who don't. I certainly think you're making the right decision in not
having sex. Good for you, but I think that a little personal time to
relieve the tension once in a while is probably a good thing for everyone.
- The Man
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- What is the best way to turn a woman on
when having some fun with her breasts? Is it by licking, some teeth,
kisses in the undiscovered areas or WHAT??????
- Keith, Age 23
The manual clearly states that women like to be touched differently.
Sometimes they tell you how and sometimes they won't, but it's definitely
different with each one. Keep your eyes and ears open and remember what
you're doing when she moans the loudest.
- The Man
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- How long does the average man take to
wank off???
- Kiri, Age 19
It only takes a few minutes when you're servicing yourself. And now that I
think about it, thank god for that! If it took a good 45 minutes to spank
the monkey I'd never get any work done! I'd be late for work every
morning, my unit would be totally raw and my right arm would be HUGE
compared to the left. It's sort of funny when you think about it... Thanks
for the funny question.
- The Man
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- Do guys like it when a girl shaves
herself?
- Kelly, Age 17
No. We love it when women shave themselves. It's sexy as hell.
- The Man
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- I really want to try giving my boyfriend
a hand job. I never did it before and I wanna know how I go about doing
it? What's the best way?
- Anonymous, Age 15
There's no right answer. Just like women, each man is different. The best
thing you can do it give it a try and keep an open mind.
- The Man
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- I am 35 years old and I haven't really
ever had a great orgasm. It seems like I am almost there and then in a
split second.....nothing. I do get soaking wet sometimes, but not anything
like I think I should. Is there a health problem you think or should I not
worry too much about it? A friend said that maybe I'm not relaxing enough.
What do you think?
- Rosemary, Age 35
I think you should try a really good vibrator one day when you're alone.
If that doesn't work then you might not have it in you. Just keep trying
until you get it right.
- The Man
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- Why do I always feel compelled to flirt
with men who have girlfriends or even wives? I ask this because I find
myself constantly flirting with my friend's boyfriend (he flirts too) even
though I know I would never want him if he were available.
- Ally, Age 23
Cats play with cat toys even though they have no intention of eating the
rubber mouse. Sounds like you're just having a little fun. Just be
careful. There's about 1,000,000 ways things could go drastically wrong if
you go too far, or if someone else thinks you've gone too far.
- The Man
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- I sometimes have trouble reaching orgasm
with intercourse alone, (please note I said sometimes) so if necessary I
help myself out with a hand. Some guys think this is great, but some are
offended and think that they aren't good enough. Are there really that
many guys that don't understand a female orgasm and what it takes to make
it happen?
- Missy, Age 28
Yep. Just do what you need to do and don't worry about those other guys.
They're probably just not very experienced or prude or both. If you're the
type of woman that needs a little helping hand, then you also need a guy
whose not going to flip out over it.
- The Man
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- I'm 17 and my penis is still kinda
skinny, my question is do you think it is safe to have surgery?
- Craig, Age 17
Surgery, huh. And just how are you going to get surgery? It's not like you
can trade baseball cards to pay for it. Are you planning on asking your
dad for a penis enlargement? Do me a favor. Throw a tape in the camcorder
when you do that and send it to me so I can see his face. If you really
want to know, you're going to have to ask a doctor.
- The Man
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- I want to go out with a 22 year old
mother. What do you think I should do?
- Charles, age 19
Bottom line is this: if you're ready to have a child in your life then it
might be okay. If you're just interested in sex then I would find it
elsewhere. It's not fair to the child. Also, women with children are
probably not looking for short term flings. Be very careful when messing
with moms.
- The Man
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- Does anything bad happen to men when
they have intercourse during a woman's menstrual cycle??
- Anonymous, Age 17
Yes. They get grossed out.
- The Man
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- I am 21 years old and a virgin, but
don't get me wrong - I have gotten my feet wet a few times. Although I
haven't yet gone all the way I am very curious about sex! I am very
interested in renting and watching a porn. So, can you recommend a really
good one?
- Mary, Age 21
I'm not a porn king and don't know the best titles. On the other hand,
porn movies aren't known generally for their fine acting and engaging
story lines. In other words, who cares? Just go get a few different movies
and some popcorn. Have fun.
- The Man
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- When a guy breaks up with me they always
have one of their friends (or one of my friends) tell me that they don't
want to go out anymore -- is that the easiest way for a guy to say
goodbye?
- Susan, Age 16
That's on of the easiest ways for anyone to say goodbye. At least their
not leaving you hanging.
- The Man
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- I really like this guy that I met at the
club a couple weekends ago. He seems so perfect (very attractive,
educated, good job, etc.). Anyway, he's already "friends" with
two ladies, but says he is looking for something more stable. He doesn't
really call often, but when I call him the conversation is great. The
other day I went over to visit him. We had good conversation, kissing and
cuddling. He even cooked for me. It was so great that I ended up spending
the night. That was our 2nd time visiting each other. We didn't have sex,
but I did let him kiss and touch my body some. He hasn't called since, but
he really didn't call much before either. I called him and of course we
had a great conversation that ended with "I'll call you in the
morning". But he hasn't made an effort to call me for 2 days after I
stayed over. I just can't tell that he's interested, unless I call him or
we are together. Should I go ahead and dismiss this guy? Not call him
anymore? or What?
- Kathy, Age 21
This guy sounds like a player to me. When I'm not interested in a girl but
I think I might get sex, I act exactly this way. On the other hand, I also
act this way when I get extremely busy just handling all the different
things I have going on in my life. I'd be careful. If this guy has a lot
going on in his life then maybe he's just busy. I'd proceed with caution.
- The Man
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- My husband and I had a 3-some with his
best friend it was my husbands idea but now he's weird around his friend.
What's up with that? (When I say 3-some I mean 2 guys all for me. They
didn't do anything to each other.)
- Anonymous, Age 20
Sex changes things. I'm not into the whole 2 guys, 1 girl scenario myself,
but if you're into it, then have fun. You just need to be prepared to
accept the consequences of your actions. When you play with fire
sometimes you get burned. Sex changes things between people. What makes
you think it can't change things between 2 guys and a woman? If I were
married and I saw my best friend banging my wife like a cheap gong I can't
imagine I'd feel the same way about him afterwards. I mean, what if she
seemed to enjoy him more then she enjoyed me? What if his dong were twice
as large as mine? What if she screamed, "Do me like a wild pig in
heat!!" to him but never said that to me before? All of these things
might make him feel less comfortable around his buddy.
- The Man
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